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a friend sent me this email forward. it came prefaced with threats of bad luck if I didn't forward it on, and followed by promises f good things if I sent it on.
I don't like threatening emails, or falsely promising email bribery.
but apart from that, I find Chain mail emails very entertaining. this one was a list of "good advice"; some of it WAS good advice, and some of it not so wise. I have made my reply here to each item of advice.
feel free to give your reaction to the ones which interest you.
or rant about why you hate chain mail
----Jadis
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
I say---Thats good, if their expectations are appropriate. some people expect too much. and it's better to give less than they expect.Give people something better than they expect; if they expect something wrong, dont give it to them, give them something good instead. For example, if a drunk asks you for money to buy a drink, take him to an AA meeting.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
I say---Marry one who likes to listen, if you like to talk, cause if you like to talk, but they dont like to listen it creates conflict. Marry one who likes to talk if you like to listen. Marry one you have good conversations with if you like to do both.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
I say--Most things should be done in moderation, these are good examples.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
I say--and know what it means, and act on it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
I say ---and mean what you say, and learn from your mistakes.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
I sayand stay single for at least a year after the end of a serious relationship.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
I saybelieve even more in the love that grows over time.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
I sayunless they want to be a comedian, then laughing would be the perfect reaction
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
I say---but do it with respect, consideration for the feelings of others, responsibility and morality.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
I say---In disagreements, dont fight against each other, fight together to come to a common understanding.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
I sayLove people, dont judge people. Judge behavior by the basic gospel principle love God and love your neighbor as yourself lovingly help others to learn how to live up to that if their behavior doesnt pass that judgment.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
I say--Talk efficiently, clearly, concisely and think through what you say completely before you say it. Except when passionate expression of feelings is called for, then honestly express what you truly feel and dont over-think it.
THIRTEEN! . When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
I say and then ask yourself why dont I want to answer? And Is that really a righteous reason?
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
I saystupidity and self indulgence involve greater risks
FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
I sayhand them a tissue, its much more helpful.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
I sayor your temper or your perspective.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
I saythose are good
I think Righteousness and Repentance would be two more good ones.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
I say-- dont let a little dispute ruin anything and dont let anything ruin a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
I saythat is very important.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
I sayunless you are really upset, because it is not always good to hide your feelings sometimes. Sometimes we need to express them honestly, and resolve them, not bottle them up inside
TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.
I sayand some time alone with God. And with your family, especially the family members you have a hard time getting along with.
twenty-two A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
I sayA true friend tells a friend honestly if they see them doing something wrong, and helps them learn to do better. A true friend never helps a friend do something harmful.
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I now have the full ten volunteers. if you still want to be featured, feel free to volunteer, but be warned it may be a few months till I get you on.
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naddykoo9~
kilby648 ~
artist-without-cause 7~
alex-sukehiro 6 ~
raemanzu 5=
avancna(done)
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1footonthedawn (done)
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Saskuto (done)
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Glinadaro (done)
1~
DawningDevil (done)
Volunteer feature # 5

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avancnaYou know how I randomly wander around DA clicking on anything which interests me? Many months ago when I had just started on this feature journal, I saw a feature in someones journal and found a picture in the favs of the person featured which had a link to something which somehow lead me to this amazing artist.
I am really impressed with his gallery because he has so much art and it is of such good quality and so creative and unique.
However he really hasnt gotten that much attention. I think his art really deserves to be seen. So I asked him to volunteer to be featured on my journal, and he generously agreed.
His art is a combination of realistic drawings of prehistoric creatures and amazing fantasy creatures influenced by his study of real creatures.
Here are three examples:

I chose this one to feature because I thought it was a nice example of this type of art, showing several different creatures, nicely drawn and colored, and in context.
This, apart from just being a very awesome creature is a nice example of taking reality and making something new and amazing from it

And this is to show what he is capable of in terms of something pretty much completely different for the other animal-based pictures, a little farther from reality, but still with great anatomy and creativity, drawn and colored with great skill and perception.
I really think the art of =
avancna is something unique which deserves to be seen and appreciated by more people. So go have a look through his gallery and leave a few comments or favs

Thank you for sharing something really original and different here on DA, =
avancnaVolunteer feature #4 *
1footonthedawn 
If I could only keep one of all the people I have ever met through DA, Sheri would be the one (fortunately I dont have to choose, because I want to keep all the rest of you too
I love you all)
We dont actually interact through DA much anymore, but we met on my LDS group here. In real life we have tons of things in common: we live in a similar part of the country, have kids similar age, belong to the same religion, are close to the same age, have similar sorts of disability issues in our families and I love to chat with her on Yahoo every chance I get, which isnt as often as wed both like because we are both busy with families and disabilities and whatnot.
She has various medical problems which often leave her too week or painful to type comments or replies, or to make new art, or to make wonderful features, but when she is up to it she is AWESOME!!! One of these days I will do a bigger feature of her because its so hard to pick only three from the wide variety of interesting stuff in her gallery.
You should all go look at her wonderful gallery, but be understanding that although she may not be able to reply to your comments at any given time, she still reads and appreciates all of them even if she cant respond.
She does photos, fractals, photomanip, animation and 3-d, and combines all those into all sorts of wonderful creations, most of which are very conceptual, so sometimes the description is even better than the awesome picture.

her highness
This is a sample of her photo manipulation. I love how well she puts images together, to capture the spirit of one of the simple but wonderful events of our lives

customer service
This little animation, well
this is not a typical sample of her artwork, but its just so funny I had to include it here
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she has an interesting sense of humor, which I enjoy

here comes the sun
And this, a fractal with animation, I hope you download to see the moving version or at lease full view to see the amazing fractal details. Its an awesome layers like onions and ogres and hailstones and jawbreakers sort of thing.
These three fall far short of representing the amazing variety of images in her gallery, so please do go look.

I LOVE YOU SHERI!!! I HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON!!!
(oh
PS
and she was the one who gave me this lovely blue background for my journal thanks for that too )
Feature volunteer #3; Saskuto
As most who read this already know, I am interested in everything and anyone, I wander around DA randomly greeting anyone and commenting on anything. If you have a cute avatar or leave an interesting comment for someone else, I come and see you, randomly. If you leave a comment or fav for me, I come see who you are.
Last fall, I met Luka *
Dentednotbroken 
when he left a comment on one of my poems, and I was immediately impressed with his writing. But since then, I have been even more impressed with his friends. He has a real talent for making friends with wonderful people, probably just because he himself is such a wonderful person.
Thats how I met *
Saskuto 
. She is one of Lukass many wonderful friends. She is a very wonderful beautiful person, and very active on DA posting many journals and a variety of deviations, including writing, coloring, photo manipulation, photography, etc.
As always, its hard for me to picked only three, and I havent time to even read or look at everything in her gallery, so you should go see for yourself,

A recent coloring. full view please, as the darkness of his clothing makes it look just dark in the smaller view, but in the large view the colors of his clothing look awesome As with anything, a big part of the art of coloring is choosing the subject, and then it is a matter of showing that subject to best advantage. Shes done a great job of choosing colors and applying them here, plus adding details like the energy ball, and that background is great too.

This poem is beautiful to me because it shows the sensual appeal of smoking, while still framing it as the Self-destructive practice which it is. Very well done

I hope you take the time to read it and leave a comment, since written works on DA often dont get the attention they deserve.

I love self-portraits, and I always says having a beautiful modal makes it so much easier to get a great photo, but apart from all that, this is just a great photo.
Oh oops
I just remembered another picture I really wanted to share, a photo manipulation

but I promised to limit these features to only 3 thumbs, I cant cheat on my rules, so youll have to go look in her gallery now

Keep sharing good stuff *
Saskuto 
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****Second Vollunteer*****

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Glinadaro 


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DawningDevil
